The Femininity Capital
Live, Lead, and Thrive In Your Feminine Power
High-achieving queen, step into your feminine essence, and spread the fragrance of who you authentically are as a woman.
Learn how to create work/personal life harmony and fulfilment by capitalizing on your God-given femininity and ditching toxic masculine ways.
Do many of these resonate with you?
- Your life feels inharmonious and you struggle with work/life balance
- You take on too much at work and home, wear the busyness badge of honor with no time for self-care and often suffer from burnout
- You are tough, generally inflexible, and struggle to be empathetic towards others, especially women colleagues, at work
- You’re highly competitive with others and yourself
- You have challenges maintaining healthy romantic relationships with men
- You frequently attract men who want to be taken care of
- You’re a fixer, and tend to always be footing the bill for others and are starting to be resentful for it *hint hint: even when they didn’t ask for the help
- You have difficulty asking for or receiving help
- You’re mostly guarded and have trouble being emotionally vulnerable, especially with close ones
- You’ve been called names: too strong a woman, chest of wood, heart of stone, hot-headed, ‘mbokodo’ (a rock), etc. And people are fearful of you as a leader.
That darlin', is being in hyper- and toxic masculinity. I get it, that's how society has told us we succeed, but to what end?
There's a better way: Stepping into your Femininity💜
Who said Femininity is weak?
You’re both masculine and feminine as a woman. But you, darlin’, were built to have the feminine advantage. Your gentle masculinity supports and protects your feminine.
Your femininity is the power through which you receive to multiply, nurture to produce, discern to defend, and connect to build harmonious relationships and teams.
Your feminine advantage is the capital you bring to the table in this world. It’s precious, it’s worthy, it’s invaluable. This world is waiting for you to manifest.
Let’s help you harness this power in a supportive room full of queens re-awakening their femininity.
Crafting Your Thriving Femininity Journey
Join us in an exclusive community embracing a life where success and excellence go hand-in-hand with your divine femaleness, a platform where we support and hold each other accountable . This isn’t just slap on a dress and lipstick affair – it’s a movement in tangibly walking in our feminine advantage, our superpower.
On Offer:
Monthly Femininity Coaching:
Each month, we’ll get to delve into female and femininity identity, mindset, traits, character, behaviours and habits, with teaching and tools on how to embody them. Teaching on these elements is informed by the Christian faith, neuroscience and psychology. 💜
Monthly Challenge:
To help embody these traits, you’ll get to partake in fun challenges, not competitions darlin’. Think wardrobe audits, think RAK days (random acts of kindness), etc. On many occasions, full participation to the end will be rewarded, so bring your best foot forward!💥
Monthly Accountability Hour:
This will serve to support you with accountability with the monthly challenges. Here you’ll get an opportunity to share your experiences and progress with others, and let us cheer you on.👏🏽
Monthly Q&A Sessions:
In this fun and relaxed space, you’ll get ask me anything related to your femininity and feminine leadership journey. To keep it organized, and in case you’re camera shy, you’ll submit your well thought out questions beforehand. 🙋🏽♀️ PS: bring your cuppa or glass of something!
Safe connections & Friendships:
Chat and connect with other queens on a private platform, ask questions to the ladies and be positively supported. This is a respectful, fun and teensy weensy professional community. Make friendships and accountability partners for motivation.💐
Bonus Lifestyle Guest Appearances (per availability):
When available, we’ll curate frequent appearances of guests that will support your femininity and womanhood journey. These may include experts and coaches in nutrition, fitness, travel, styling, make-up artistry, career, finances, dating & relationship, etc!💃🏽
You're first a human being fashioned after God, then a female, then everything else
Our motto: Super-Receive & Thrive In Your Femininity
Key Benefits:
Work/Home Life Harmony
As you wear deeper layers of your soft femininity and shed the toxic masculinity, areas of your life will become harmonious and in sync with who you are
Elevated Confidence
Witness yourself blossom to show up in confidence, personally and professionally, with each step on your femininity path.
Healthier Connections
Connect with yourself and those you love, lead or collaborate with, nurturing meaningful and more fruitful relationships
Restful Goal Manifesting
Peacefully go after your goals and desired life, adopting a mindset of receiving abundance from all that God has for you in the universe.
Meet Your Coach:
Hey, I'm Dr Shibu Selatole 👋🏼
I’m a Christian-based Femininity Mindset & Lifestyle Coach.
I love helping successful women (leaders & executives), who nail it at work but feel stuck and out of sync in other areas, embrace their female identity and feminine power so they can live the harmonious life they truly desire.
I have embraced femininity as a way of life, and I have never been this confident, my life has never been this peaceful and my sense of purpose is cemented. My wish is that you experience the same, not only that, but that what God created as a female fully manifests. And that’s why I’ve curated this community, to create a safe space where your masculinity can gently support your fierce femininity yearning to step forward.
JOIN US. We can’t wait to welcome you!
This Membership is Not For You If:
- You prefer working on a 1:1 basis. In this community we highly value the support, motivation and accountability through others.
- You will be offended at Christian-based remarks, comments, feedback and advice.
- You won’t be willing to make time for self-care and personal growth.
I highly recommend that, before joining, you would have started inner healing work, e.g. therapy or life coaching. Embracing and walking in femininity starts in the inner being and radiates outwards. The work done in this community is meant to support that through working on conduct (habits & behaviours) and appearance, and will involve some mindset work. Consider enrolling in WOMAN MANIFEST!, our signature 6 month intensive inner work coaching program.
Join the femininity revolution in The Femininity Capital
It’s not about hating or displacing men, but about standing just as tall and bright alongside them. It’s time for you to take back your power and become the woman you were really meant to be. A wholesome, confident and impactful woman.
Let 2025 be the year you get into your God-created authentic best version as a queen!👑
Join the Community
Join today at the current price (available for a limited time) of 50% off at ZAR 1709 (~$92) monthly. Or try it out Free for 1 month. No credit card details required! Join on the last link below.
*subject to exchange rate
Features each month:
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Monthly Live or Pre-Recorded Feminine Mindset/Lifestyle Lessons
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Monthly Feminine Life Challenges - to help you take clear and intentional steps
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Monthly Live Challenge Accountability Sessions
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Monthly Q&A Sessions
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Community Support in a private platform
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Weekly Self-Care Orders
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Bonus: Free Access to The Mind & The Female 101 Mini-Course - Learn The Basics Of How Your Mind Works To Harness Its Power & Support Your Femininity Journey!
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Bonus: Special Guest Appearances (per availability)