The Femininity Capital
Your Success and Power Were Never Meant to Manifest Through Toiling
Live, Lead And Love In Your Femininity
She has Everything...but her True Self
You’ve built the career. The business. Ticked many boxes…
You’re strong — but you’re tired.
Not just tired of work… tired of overfunctioning in everything.
Tired of winning at work but struggling at home.
You crave softness. Rest. Alignment. Your true self.
In all areas, you desire to live with joy, lead with Authenticity, and love without fear.
And deep down, you’re asking:
“How do I succeed without the hustle of being like one of the boys?”
“How do I lead effectively at home and at work without having to be hard?”
“Can I attract or sustain healthy love without losing myself?” “What would it take for me to attract healthy love even?”
The answer is in you coming home to your feminine design —
The place of your Renewal, your healing, wholeness, and favour.
Because thriving begins with becoming her — the woman God created beneath all your roles.
INTRODUCING: THE FEMININITY CAPITAL
A femininity embodiment coaching membership for the high-achieving woman ready to:
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Dismantle her hustle reliance or addiction
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Reclaim her position and power in her femininity
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Redesign her life with alignment, softness, restfulness, and God-given purpose
This isn’t self-help.
This is self-recovery.
Why Now?
Because, thank God, you’re finally tired of succeeding outwardly while feeling misaligned inwardly.
You’ve mastered career wins, leadership, responsibility, resilience…
But somewhere along the way, you realized you’ve lost touch with the woman beneath the roles.
You’ve learned to survive by performing strength — but you’re quietly yearning for softness, joy, and wholeness.
You’re craving:
🌸 A lifestyle that doesn’t leave your nervous system in overdrive
🌸 A rhythm of rest that doesn’t trigger guilt
🌸 A version of career and relational success that actually feels good
🌸 An identity that’s no longer held together by pressure
This is about your femininity for YOU.
Not just to attract a partner.
Not to be more liked or palatable.
But because it’s who you were created to be — before the striving, before the proving, before the world told you to “man up” to win, or perform to attract.
And if you do feel you need to position yourself in femininity for the call to wifehood?
We have a sacred inner circle just for that.
Whether you need to be in that circle or not, this core space is your return to wholeness for your own sake.
Because when you align, everything else thrives.
The Feminine Truth
🌸At WORK:
You were never created to grind your way to success.
God didn’t call you to become less of a woman to be more of a leader.
Your softness is not your weakness. It’s your superpower.
🌸And in LOVE?
Your femininity is the divine counterpart to healthy masculine leadership.
When you embody feminine energy—openness, receptivity, intuitive knowing—you create the polarity that invites strong, loving, emotionally available masculinity in your man to rise in return.
Polarity is God’s design, not a trend.
When you’re constantly emotionally disconnected, managing, controlling… you unintentionally close the door to the relational depth you deeply crave. At work and at home.
But when you soften—not shrink—you make space for mutual trust and honor to flow.
Your femininity isn’t just about you.
It heals how you love, how you are loved, and how you lead others into love too.
What You Get Inside
Monthly Femininity Coaching:
Each month, we’ll get to delve into female and femininity identity, mindset, traits, character, behaviours and habits, with teaching and tools on how to embody them. Teaching on these elements is informed by the Christian faith, neuroscience and psychology. 💜
Monthly Challenge:
To help embody these traits, you’ll get to partake in fun challenges, not competitions darlin’. The main objective is to take practical guided steps to embody your femininity. On many occasions, full participation to the end will be rewarded, so bring your best foot forward!💥
Chance to Upgrade to an Inner Circle:
For those who wish to embody the power of their femininity to position themselves for a godly calling to marriage.
More info on the Godly Wifey Prep Circle below.👸🏾
Monthly Live Group Q&A Sessions:
In this fun and relaxed space, you’ll get ask me anything related to your femininity journey at work and at home. To keep it organized, and in case you’re camera shy, you’ll submit your well thought out questions beforehand. 🙋🏽♀️ PS: bring your cuppa or glass of something!
Safe connections & Friendships:
Chat and connect with other queens on a private platform, ask questions to the ladies and be positively supported. This is a respectful, fun and teensy weensy professional community. Make friendships and accountability partners for motivation.💐
Special Lifestyle Guest Appearances (per availability):
When available, we’ll curate frequent appearances of guests that will support your femininity and womanhood journey. These may include experts and coaches in nutrition, fitness, travel, styling, make-up artistry, career, finances, dating & relationship, etc!💃🏽
Your Femininity Capital
Who said femininity is weak?
You’re both masculine and feminine as a woman. But you, darlin’, were built to have the feminine advantage. Your gentle masculinity supports and protects your feminine.
Your femininity is the power through which you receive to multiply, nurture to produce, discern to defend, and connect to build harmonious relationships and teams.
Your feminine advantage is the capital you bring to the table in this world. It’s precious, it’s worthy, it’s invaluable. This world is waiting for you to manifest.
Let’s help you harness this power in a supportive room full of queens re-awakening their femininity.
Why the Capital?
Because you’ve invested years into your education, your business, your family.
Now it’s time to invest in you.
Your feminine capital is the return-on-investment that restores your joy, beauty, connection, and ease.
Also, this is the high place, the capital of femininity embodiment!
Meet Your Coach:
Hey, I'm Dr Shibu Selatole 👋🏼
Christ-Submitted Woman of Faith. MBA (cum laude)-holding Clinician Leader. NLP-trained Femininity Revivalist.
I’m not just a coach — I’m a woman who’s had to renew, align and come home to herself.
For years, I carried career success and parenting responsibility. But beneath the strong woman there began emerging someone tired of performance and chasing validation in accolades and wrong men. Tired of the hustle, heaviness and barrenness of soul. Of ripping my child apart…
I longed to come to who God created me to be.
The Femininity Capital was born from my own healing journey — a return to wholeness and authenticity, not just achievement.
Today, I support women like you — high-achieving, faith-rooted, done with operating in masculine toxicity — to reclaim the feminine power God always meant for you to live from.
You don’t need to push harder.
You need to find rest and abundance within the God-empowered YOU.
JOIN US. We can’t wait to welcome you!
You Don’t Need to Be Fixed — You Need to Be Freed
This membership is not about fixing your flaws.
It’s about:
Rewiring how you see success
Renewing how you experience your womanhood
Restoring how you relate to God, yourself, and others
So you can live, love, and lead in the wholeness of your empowered feminine identity.
What Some of the Ladies Say
Wise & Insightful
Shibu has been such a transformative force in my life. Her wisdom and insightful guidance have empowered me to not only pursue but to live a fulfilling intentional life. She’s also challenged perceptions I had that kept me in survival mode and were limiting me from thriving in life. Through the engagements I’ve had with her, I've not only grown as a person, but I have also found renewed motivation to take intentional actions in pursuing and living out the vision I have for my life. Shibu is not just a coach; she is a catalyst for positive holistic change, and I'm grateful for the impact she’s had in my journey. She’s truly helped me see that anything is possible when I put my mind to it and my faith to action.
A Coach to a Coach!
When I started working with Shibu as my coach I had already started my self-healing journey and I went into the program with some hesitation if I would get the benefits from the techniques given that I have done some of the work myself. I was completely surprised by how much quicker and easier it was to have Shibu guide me through healing my wounds. Shibu allowed me to be myself and I was comfortable enough to bring up some really painful experiences which allowed me to gain so much more understanding and I was able to forgive myself. Thank you so much for being my Coach! I appreciate you and all the work you do!
Takes Work but Worth it
The coaching process has helped me in self-awareness and discovering why I do/behave the way I do, the areas of brokenness in my life and has given me the tools to be intentional in pursuit of the life I desire. I am glad to have started this journey of growth and healing, and I am excited about the future!
Who It’s For
The Femininity Capital is made for the woman who:
✔ Is exhausted from always being the strong one, disconnected and feared at work and at home
✔ Wants success and softness (no toiling) — not one at the cost of the other
✔ Feels disconnected from her sensuality, identity, or God-given rhythm
✔ Is ready to stop pushing and start magnetizing
✔ Desires to experience healthy, masculine pursuit in her romantic relationships —without dimming her power
✔ Desires to prepare for godly wifehood anchored in her femininity
Who It’s Not For
❌ Women who aren’t ready to release control
❌ Those seeking quick fixes without reflection
❌ Those seeking dating coaching
❌ Anyone who’ll fail to make the time for self care and personal growth
❌ Anyone uncomfortable with Christian faith-based language and principles
Your New Feminine Ritual
Imagine:
Every month, you rise a little softer and a lot more certain.
You learn to rest and receive without guilt.
You cultivate grace at work and wholeness in your womanhood.
You’re no longer rushing, fixing, or chasing.
You flow, instead of squeezing and pumping.
You’re rooted, radiant, and truly thriving from the inside out.
Not for applause.
But because you finally feel like yourself again.
This is what happens when driven, high-achieving women come home to their God-created femininity.
Two Paths to Your Feminine Wholeness
💠 The Femininity Capital Membership – $79/month
This is your foundational space for feminine healing, mindset, lifestyle and leadership growth.
Perfect for women who want to:
Rewire from hustle to harmony
Regulate their nervous system
Deepen identity, rest, and inner power
Lead without losing themselves
Embody their faith in daily life
If you’re ready to live and lead from your feminine design, this is your space.
💍 Godly Wifey Prep Inner Circle – $169/month
Add-on option for members of The Femininity Capital
This upgrade is for the woman who is preparing for kingdom partnership, not just companionship.
You’ll receive:
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Guidance on purpose partnering and equal yoking
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Relationship polarity teachings rooted in scripture and feminine embodiment
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Guidance for attracting, discerning and submitting to healthy masculine leadership
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Identity and heart healing work around love, trust, and intimacy
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Wifehood mindset training, not action-based or any dating coaching
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High-touch Q&As and coaching from Dr. Shibu with a tight-knit circle of women on the same path
This is a sanctuary for becoming, not just waiting.
Because preparing for godly marriage begins with embodying the woman God called you to be.
You can reposition yourself even as a married woman to renew the state of your marriage. It’s never too late.
If you've been waiting for a sign, this is it.
Join the femininity revival Now.
It’s not about hating or displacing men, but about standing just as tall and bright alongside them. It’s just time for you to take back your power and become the woman you were really meant to be. A wholesome, confident and impactful woman.
You don’t need to earn rest, softness, love, or abundance. You were born worthy of it. It’s been ring-fenced fo you.💜
Choose How You Become
The Femininity Capital
The Core Membership
$79 / R1419
per month (cancel anytime)
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Monthly Feminine Mindset/Lifestyle Lessons
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Monthly Femininity Embodiment Challenges
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Monthly Q&A Session
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Occasional Guest Masterclasses
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Sisterhood & Accountability on a Private Platform
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Bonus: Free Access to Mind Your Life Mini-Course
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Bonus: 15% OFF Woman Manifest! Group Coaching when it launches
Godly Wifey Prep Circle
Inner Circle Upgrade Membership
$169 / R2977
per month (cancel anytime)
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Everything in CORE Membership
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PLUS
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Monthly Godly Marriage Prep Classes
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Monthly Marriage Prep Q&A Session
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Sisterhood & Accountability in a Separate Space
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Bonus: Additional 10% (total 30%) OFF Woman Manifest! Group Coaching when it launches
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Frequently Asked Questions
It’s a monthly membership that blends mindset coaching, feminine lifestyle guidance, soft leadership development, and biblical wisdom — all designed to help high-achieving women reconnect with their femininity, identity, and divine rhythm. You’ll get monthly themes, feminine embodiment challenges, coaching sessions, and access to a supportive community.
We help you become more of who God created you to be through rest, softness, emotional healing, nervous system regulation, and feminine alignment. This isn’t about hustle or hype. It’s deep inner work that brings real, sustainable transformation.
This is an upgrade inside the membership for women who are specifically preparing or positioning for Godly marriage — not just any romantic relationship. If you desire to stop overfunctioning in love, embrace relational polarity and God's order, learn feminine relational skills, and become emotionally and spiritually positioned for Kingdom partnership, this is for you.
Absolutely — married women also need healing in their patterns, deepening of their feminine presence, and rebuilding of connection in their relationships. You’re welcome to join, this is also for you.
We design everything with depth and simplicity in mind. Most women find that just 1–2 intentional hours per week (listening, journaling, implementing) creates massive internal shifts. Plus, you can go at your own pace — all replays of lessons and masterclasses are available. I'm encouraging you, my darling sis, to make your personal wellness a great priority.💜
We honor and center Christian values and scripture, but you don’t have to be a Christian to join. If you’re spiritually open and respectful of faith-based teachings, you’ll feel at home here.
Nope. You’re free to engage in whatever way feels safe and nourishing. You can submit questions anonymously, join live with your camera off, or simply soak in the content and implement in your own time.
No long-term contract. It’s month-to-month, so you can cancel anytime. However, we recommend committing to at least 3 months to see and feel lasting transformation. (Please note: no refunds, as this is a coaching-based space with digital resources.)
No — the Godly Wifey Prep Inner Circle is inclusive of core membership to The Femininity Capital. It builds on the core principles and fundamentals taught in the Core membership and offers deeper, more specific support.
Come Join Us!
Creation is eagerly waiting for you to take up your mantle as a woman created in glorious femininity, to serve God through communities, be it in your womanhood, leadership or marriage.